There are so many articles these days that are supposed to help you to attract the man or woman of your dreams into your life. We all want to be loved, we all want to meet someone who will answer our emotional, spiritual and physical needs and live happily ever after.
You’ve probably heard that in order to find your love you need to love yourself first. You need to learn to love yourself unconditionally and fully before you can create a lifelong loving relationship with anyone else.
But how can we learn to love ourselves? What is it that we need to do to make sure that we give ourselves that full and unconditional love?
There are several simple exercises you can do:
Talk to yourself kindly and gently:
This little exercise is very powerful. It can do wonders; from boosting your self confidence to healing your mind and body.
Look at yourself in the mirror at least twice a day and say “I love you fully and unconditionally. I will love you always no matter what. You are a great person and I am always with you. I am proud of you and will always support you.”
You will see after several days of doing it how much better you will feel.
So often we beat ourselves up for our mistakes. It might make us feel better that we are so conscious and strict with ourselves, that we are so good we admit our mistakes and punish ourselves for them. In reality, it is just making things worse. When you beat yourself up, you are so much more likely to repeat the same mistake over and over again. It is only when you are kind and gentle with yourself and forgiving that you can make changes for the better.
The next time you make a mistake, say to yourself– “It is ok, I still love you, I am sure the next time you won’t do it. You are only human, you are entitled to make mistakes. I forgive you and I still love you. “
Talk to your inner child.
We all have a child still living inside of us. By being kind and loving toward that child you can learn to love yourself and heal the past pains that are holding you back from being completely happy.
Imagine yourself as a child. See yourself when you were little. Talk to that child, hug him or her, hold them tightly and say “I love you, I will always be with you, you are wonderful, and I am so proud of you.”
A lot of our love life issues come from our childhood. Sometimes our parents were too strict and unsupportive of us, or maybe our friends or teachers hurt us. Those experiences still live inside of you.
By talking to your inner child and assuring him/her that you are always there for him/her and will always love him/her can you heal those past painful experiences and reveal a new, stronger, more loving you.
It is true that you can’t truly love anyone without loving yourself first. You can’t attract a loving relationship into your life before you heal relationships within yourself and learn to love yourself fully and unconditionally.
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