You can’t go somewhere and stay where you are at the same time. It is the law of nature. No exceptions.
Makes sense doesn’t it? But so often that’s exactly what we are trying to do – be in both places at the same time..
I was talking to a friend of mine a couple weeks ago. Very good old friend. Wonderful person, we share memories and we had so much in common in the past.
She is still Here. She is completely and totally Here. Here, where I am moving out of.
I can’t take her with me. And I do want to go. But I realized that subconsciously I resisted.
Subconsciously I didn’t want to give up this friendship even though there was not much left from the friendship we once had.
She doesn’t understand me anymore, I don’t understand her. The whole idea of following the passion is kind of ridiculous to her. The idea of NOT doing it is ridiculous to me.
But I would purposely make myself smaller when talking to her. I wouldn’t show how much I changed. I would be like her.
Don’t get me wrong. There is nothing wrong with her and I don’t judge. But we are different now and if I stay in that circle, it means I have to be like that circle because that circle doesn’t accept anything different.
Fear of greatness. Fear of being different. Comfort zone. But I’ll talk about those in a different post.
In this post I want to say loud and clear: You can’t stay here if you want to go there. It is impossible. It is against the laws of nature. No exceptions.
What are you resisting letting go of?
What is holding you where you want to move on from? You might be surprised if you look closer.
I, of course, knew about letting go of the old to accept the new and I thought I did it. Only lately did I notice that there still were some things in my life that I was resisting letting go of.
So look closer, what do you need to let go?
What is not allowing you to move where you want to go?
Look at people in your life. Are they in alignment with who you want to be? Do they support you in your vision?
Try doing the following:
Close your eyes. Imagine your Ideal Day. What do you see there? Now open your eyes and write down what or who in your life is not vibrationally aligned with your Ideal Day.
I am not saying to get rid of everyone and everything ruthlessly. Some friends will support you even if they won’t go all the way there with you. But what about those that make you play small, that don’t support nor understand you, that are simply too out of sync with your Vision.
Let them go. Don’t regret.
If you want to be the new you, if you want to tap into your Greatness, Into Your True Self, you have to let go of everything that holds you back.
Just take a deep breath. And decide to let go.
I did. And it feels great.
Part 2 of this post is coming soon.
Live consciously, Be Yourself, Follow Your Dreams!