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By: jonathanfigaro

jonathanfigaro — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 16:47:08 +0000

we must all be happy in the moment. Time is all we have. We should cherish every second. And for those who do, more power to you.

Great post LANA!

By: Christopher Kabamba

Christopher Kabamba — Sat, 20 Feb 2010 09:16:22 +0000

Lana,
A great reminder this is.

The only place we ever live is IN THE NOW. Even for the future we are reaching out to, we have to wait until it is translated into the NOW for us to live in it.

So if we have the habit of not loving the NOW we surely will not enjoy THEN when it is translated into the NOW because we don’t love NOW in the first place.

Thank you for the reminder.
.-= Christopher Kabamba´s last blog ..A Guide to my idea of Conscious Parenting =-.

By: Lana

Lana — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 22:33:35 +0000

@Amit I think you are definitely right Amit, if you can’t love it, you can accept it and let go. Otherwise what you resist persist. Like I’ve written I have situations when I have a mixture of love and hatred. I think you can still love the fact that you are alive, that you are growing, while not liking the particular situation itself.

@One of The Guys (this is a cool name:)), “at least be there when it happens” – true, loved it.

@Megan thank you so much Megan, you blog have been bookmarked too and I’ll visit often. This Universe is perfect, so it’s definitely all good. Always:)
.-= Lana´s last blog ..you won’t love THERE if you don’t love HERE first =-.

By: Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord

Megan "JoyGirl!" Bord — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 13:42:21 +0000

I wholeheartedly believe this. I’ve found, from a manifesting standpoint, that the moment I sink completely into the moment and love it for all it’s worth (aka, become truly content), amazing newness starts appearing all around me.

A phrase I like that keeps me loving the current moment (and keeps me grounded in it) is this: It’s All Good!
If we live in a perfect Universe (which I believe we do), then it has to be!

I really enjoy your blog, and am so glad Tess featured you as a guest author. You’ve been bookmarked!
.-= Megan “JoyGirl!” Bord´s last blog ..Underwear in the Jungle! =-.

By: ONE of THE GUYS

ONE of THE GUYS — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 13:07:17 +0000

I agree!

My whole goal is to BE PRESENT! With my kids, my wife and ME! Otherwise what’s the point of anything really?

We have to learn to enjoy the moment, or at least be there when it happens.
.-= ONE of THE GUYS´s last blog ..Easy Motivation =-.

By: Amit Sodha - The Power Of Choice

Amit Sodha - The Power Of Choice — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 12:22:42 +0000

Hey Lana,

Fantastic post and this is always a tricky one for some people.

They get into that mindset that they should love the here and now and in some way feel pressured, by themselves, to stay or feel weak for leaving. I think you can say goodbye but do it without any animosity towards the current situation.

I think loving where you are might be too much for some people, I’d be lying if I didn’t say certain situations were a bit too much for me too love, or that I just wasn’t there yet.

Maybe just letting go is the key, accepting just as much as you can and then letting go is the way to go. What do you think?
.-= Amit Sodha – The Power Of Choice´s last blog ..How To Make A Plan Come Together – Just Like The A-Team =-.

By: Lana

Lana — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 22:08:21 +0000

@Tess, dear, thank you so much for the opportunity, I appreciate it!

@Nadia, so true, we can’t get there until we fully accept here or it will take lots of pushing and striving. Not what I want to do. Thank you for your comments!

@Jeanne, it took me awhile too, but I am so glad I am finally here:)
.-= Lana´s last blog ..you won’t love THERE if you don’t love HERE first =-.

By: Jeanne

Jeanne — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 17:58:17 +0000

Great wisdom here, Lana — it took me a while, but I discovered that making peace with what IS takes a great burden off of living; and that dreams become reality so much more easily when we’re HAPPY with the present, with NOW.

Hope your message spreads far and wide!
.-= Jeanne´s last blog ..May You Rest in Peace =-.

By: Nadia - Happy Lotus

Nadia - Happy Lotus — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 16:38:42 +0000

Hi Lana,

Beautiful post with great advice.

We take ourselves where ever we go. Tomorrow will take care of itself and it starts with us being fully engaged in the present.

We may not love our present but we have to work with what we have and be candid about the situation. It will guides to where we want to be.

A person cannot get there until they accept the here.
.-= Nadia – Happy Lotus´s last blog ..“Here Comes the Sun” – The Re-Invention Begins =-.