Comments on: You are NOT responsible for anything and how it can help you reach any of your goals.

By: Top host

Top host — Sat, 26 Dec 2009 15:56:24 +0000

This is a really great article here.

By: Lana

Lana — Fri, 25 Dec 2009 02:37:40 +0000

We are responsible Hulbert if we live consciously is every moment we can really contro what we thinka nd how we act. Not everyone lives conscipously in every moment but I think that is what everyone should strive for.
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By: Hulbert

Hulbert — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 21:19:28 +0000

Hi Lana. This is a really great article here. I really liked how you emphasize on responsibility as a cornerstone of personal development. I agree that it is because whatever we want our life to be, we can make it happen. We are a hundred percent responsible for our own thinking and our own actions. This post kind of reminded me of that. Thanks for sharing this.

By: Lana

Lana — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 04:06:14 +0000

Mark thanks for the great comment – “Love knows and accepts life for what it is” – I loved it!
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By: Lana

Lana — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 04:05:10 +0000

Jacqui, that’s exactly why I said let go responsibility because when there is no responsibility there is not expectations/attachments/judgements=no suffering.
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By: Mark

Mark — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 22:38:59 +0000

Lana,
You have written a brilliant post. What you say is correct, when we remove expectations we remove our frustrations and we achieve peace of mind. When we understand that our only true responsibility is to love and that love is our nature we then discover there are no needs for responsibilities for love will achieve all that we need or for that matter don’t need. We will begin to see that all is as it is supposed to be and when we do we know peace of mind and we lose our desire to be upset or mad or disappointed. Love is not any of these things. Love does not fear. Love knows and accepts life for what it is. May you be your true self which is love!

By: JACQUI JONES

JACQUI JONES — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 22:26:20 +0000

Hi Lana. I got a bit confused at the point you were trying to make. To me, I like to take responsibility for myself and understand that others will be what they are. It’s good to let go of expectations and judgements of others, I agree. But I’m not sure what you meant by letting go of responsibility. Do you mean letting go of things we ’should’ do, if so I agree.

By: Lana

Lana — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 18:49:50 +0000

Ralph thanks for the comment, I am actually the same, I love people who are responsible for their actions and am really annoyed by those who don’t. That’s why the interview got me thinking.
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By: Ralph

Ralph — Sun, 20 Dec 2009 10:51:31 +0000

Nice post. But like most of the comments here I must say that I don’t agree with some of it. To me responsibility is a beautiful thing. For myself and I find it attractive in the people I meet.

In my personal life, the people who are take responsibility for their actions will get much more help from me.
Whenever I speak at a high school or university, the student that comes up to me afterward, tells me their story of where they want to be in 10 years and tells me their plan, will get a speedy reply from me when they send me an email asking for advice.
I will also reward any of my assistants that take such much responsibility for their assignments that I wonder if I am still running the company.

Just my take on it. Thanks for stirring the thoughts in my mind

By: Lana

Lana — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 21:43:15 +0000

Thank you Jay, I agree we are most productive and creative when we just take action but for whatever reason it mostly happens either when we don’t care as much or we just have no other choice. In normal circumstances when we really want something but at the same time have other choices we tend to let fears, procrastination, worries etc. sabotage us. That’s why letting go of some responsibilty might help because it will make us not so attached to certain outcome.
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